We Will Remember Them

So what is the best way for a crowd to pay tribute to others who have died in tragic circumstances?

This is the conundrum currently facing Manchester United.

The idea of celebrating life instead of mourning death is a notion that has gained currency in recent times. I have been to several funerals in the last few years where the dress code was bright colours and the order of the day to tell funny stories and recall happy memories of the person.

I can certainly see the value of this sort of approach, but I am sure too there needs to be a place to express sadness and loss. Especially when there is a degree of tragedy or sacrifice involved.

For example, I can't think it would ever be appropriate to have a joyous celebration for those who died fighting for their country. There needs to be a degree of reverence and respect for their sacrifice.

How best to mark a death, or the memory of one, needs to include those left behind too where appropriate. After all part of the process should, in my view, potentially offer some comfort and healing to loved ones.

So I say good on you Man U for sticking with what seems right and not being tempted by a potentially less challenging, more pragmatic solution.

And may those poor souls rest in peace.